No matter what, all relationships hurt, be it friendship, love, or even sisters or brothers. Everything has a tag of 'bad times' along with it. It's weird, but true, you cannot change it. You just have to accept it. If someone who'll be there for you no matter what, are your parents, or to an extent your siblings, they can die for you, but can you boyfriends/girlfriends LITERALLY die for you? Or your bestfriends, or even friends, can they? I guess everyone knows the answer to it. Even I do. Making relationships, and believing in them alongside is a different thing. They are TEMPORARY. They will stay for a while, make some lala-and-gaga memories, and they'll GO. They won't be there for you till your last breath.
You can't even expect anything from the people who are the closest to you. Something or the other will hurt you, it's obvious, you love them, they've that thing to hurt you, as simple as that. And weak girls like us so easily give it to each and everyone, what the fuck are we? A tissue? To be hurt again and again? So as of now, the people who wish to ditch you/use you/ or shit, can FUCK OFF, and the one's who literally care, can stay. You don't promise them to be there forever, you don't promise them to be with them in their bad times, you cannot promise them to love them forever, but yeah, what you can do is just be there genuinely as far as you can. No fake promises. No expectations. No hatred. No love. No heartache.
"Expectation is the root of all heartache."
- William Shakespeare.
BUT yes, real relationships exist, in which crying is worth that idiot. Such relationships do come, and you should know that they will, and that will be the day when you will truly start believing in genuine people and relationships, till then, everybody knows how fake the world is. So just be strong, 'cause the world out there is a total bitch.
In life, if you expect people to be choose your hapiness over their hapiness, then it's YOU who's at fault, not them.
You can't even expect anything from the people who are the closest to you. Something or the other will hurt you, it's obvious, you love them, they've that thing to hurt you, as simple as that. And weak girls like us so easily give it to each and everyone, what the fuck are we? A tissue? To be hurt again and again? So as of now, the people who wish to ditch you/use you/ or shit, can FUCK OFF, and the one's who literally care, can stay. You don't promise them to be there forever, you don't promise them to be with them in their bad times, you cannot promise them to love them forever, but yeah, what you can do is just be there genuinely as far as you can. No fake promises. No expectations. No hatred. No love. No heartache.
"Expectation is the root of all heartache."
- William Shakespeare.
BUT yes, real relationships exist, in which crying is worth that idiot. Such relationships do come, and you should know that they will, and that will be the day when you will truly start believing in genuine people and relationships, till then, everybody knows how fake the world is. So just be strong, 'cause the world out there is a total bitch.
In life, if you expect people to be choose your hapiness over their hapiness, then it's YOU who's at fault, not them.
I do agree with some of it. But well written :D Congrats on the blog bashtie xx
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All this is well and good; you've shared what you've experienced and what you've learnt (or what you THINK you've learned, 'cuz you will re-think every point you've made here sooner or later). But you know what? You are a kid! And I mean that in a good way. Why let these things get to you and bother you at all? Make happy memories. Be happy! After this high school drama (for the lack of a better term) ends, you will have real shit to face. Higher education, career, boyfriends with REAL problems maybe! So take it easy! Don't over-think anything. It's the root cause of all trouble! :)
ReplyDeleteP.S. About the blog: Awesome start. Keep it up!
Awesome Blog
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